In the United States there is a lot of confusion about sexuality especially when it comes to female masturbation and its benefits. This can be especially confusing for women because of the lack of general knowledge about female sexuality from a medical standpoint. When people then start telling females that they are evil, strange, deviant, and disgusting for doing something that is natural neuroses can develop. The point of this article is to get you to understand why American society is so strange when it comes to sex in general and how to overcome these thoughts to enjoy female masturbation that much more.
In the 16th, 17th, and 18th centuries Western Europe went through a time known as the Reformation. This was when parts of the Catholic church fragmented into many different parts as people realized that the Roman church was very corrupt and heretical. Out of these many sects a few became quite radical in their interpretation of human sexuality and called themselves Puritans. Their view was that sex was strictly between and married man and woman and only to be performed for the sake of birthing a child.
Why Do Women Have To Masturbate? Women masturbate because that is probably the only way for many of them to explore themselves and discover parts of their bodies their men never reach during foreplay or sex. Masturbation helps women explore their pleasure points in order to excite themselves in a sexual way. Females also masturbate to give themselves the sexual and erotic pleasure their men and sex partners fail to give them during sex.
The special part of a woman's body that she really needs to learn how to pleasure is the clitoris. A woman's clitoris is similar to a guy's penis and in some ways it actually does look like a tiny little penis. It has a hood and the button to "push" is the tiny little sensitive area under that hood. When you gentle rub it, first slow, then gradually faster and with more pressure, it starts to swell just like a man's penis does and the hood will come up over it. By that point, you should really be starting to pant and sweat and feel good if you have done it the right way.
Men need to master the women erogenous zones because that will make their partners adore them and be ready to have sex whenever they like. This is because sex with these women will be a give and take situation; the woman gives and receives pleasure, just like the man. Otherwise, the women will continue to masturbate even after having sex with their men.Graphs are not very exciting concepts but nevertheless they can be useful. Imagine the male orgasm graph which looks a little like a vertical phallic symbol. Then imagine the female orgasm graph which looks like the outline of a woman's vulva.
Female masturbation techniques differ from woman to woman. This is because the sensuous areas of women vary. So, something that may work for some individuals may not be as exciting to others. We list below a number of techniques you can try:The first step is to relax completely and feel free. Remember, you cannot get excited or feel the centers of your sensual arousal unless you are totally relaxed.
Bend your legs and spread them apart. You can try some erotica at this moment. Try reading an erotic book, watching an adult film or looking at some arousing pictures. These will get you in the mood for more pleasure.The purpose of masturbation is to find out all the pleasure centers in your body. The easiest way to do this is to run your hands all over your body. Try massaging your breasts, circling your navel or touching your inner thighs and the crevice between your thighs and your legs.
When you reach your genitals, try out different kinds of touches and strokes. You can try tickling, stroking, kneading or pinching your vagina very lightly. Don't confine yourself to your fingers only. Use your hands and even your knuckles to stimulate the area.You will get the most amazing orgasm if you learn to hold it back for some time. Try slowing down the level of stimulation when you feel that you are about to have the orgasm. Do not stop it altogether; just stimulate another area for some time. This will not only increase the pleasure from the act, it will help you get multiple orgasms also.Remember to breathe regularly when you are getting the climax. The natural inclination is to hold your breath. However, breathing deeply and regularly will help you get a more intense orgasm.
I also concluded that the impression that women respond similarly to men must be a result of sexual fantasies. Since talking to other women, I now know that women interpret emotional sensations as if they represent true sexual arousal and orgasm.When women like myself ask about lack of orgasm, experts often refer to inhibition or to psychological trauma that might have caused a woman to view sex as 'dirty' or as a 'violation' rather than a loving act involving mutual sexual pleasure. I challenge this suggestion - it seems more likely that the reverse is likely to be true.Women who masturbate to orgasm are LESS sexually inhibited than other women. Not only do they appreciate eroticism enough to enjoy their own sexual fantasies when alone. They are also more willing to engage on a variety of sexual activities with a partner to explore how they might enjoy their own sexual arousal during sex.
In the 16th, 17th, and 18th centuries Western Europe went through a time known as the Reformation. This was when parts of the Catholic church fragmented into many different parts as people realized that the Roman church was very corrupt and heretical. Out of these many sects a few became quite radical in their interpretation of human sexuality and called themselves Puritans. Their view was that sex was strictly between and married man and woman and only to be performed for the sake of birthing a child.
Why Do Women Have To Masturbate? Women masturbate because that is probably the only way for many of them to explore themselves and discover parts of their bodies their men never reach during foreplay or sex. Masturbation helps women explore their pleasure points in order to excite themselves in a sexual way. Females also masturbate to give themselves the sexual and erotic pleasure their men and sex partners fail to give them during sex.
The special part of a woman's body that she really needs to learn how to pleasure is the clitoris. A woman's clitoris is similar to a guy's penis and in some ways it actually does look like a tiny little penis. It has a hood and the button to "push" is the tiny little sensitive area under that hood. When you gentle rub it, first slow, then gradually faster and with more pressure, it starts to swell just like a man's penis does and the hood will come up over it. By that point, you should really be starting to pant and sweat and feel good if you have done it the right way.
Men need to master the women erogenous zones because that will make their partners adore them and be ready to have sex whenever they like. This is because sex with these women will be a give and take situation; the woman gives and receives pleasure, just like the man. Otherwise, the women will continue to masturbate even after having sex with their men.Graphs are not very exciting concepts but nevertheless they can be useful. Imagine the male orgasm graph which looks a little like a vertical phallic symbol. Then imagine the female orgasm graph which looks like the outline of a woman's vulva.
Female masturbation techniques differ from woman to woman. This is because the sensuous areas of women vary. So, something that may work for some individuals may not be as exciting to others. We list below a number of techniques you can try:The first step is to relax completely and feel free. Remember, you cannot get excited or feel the centers of your sensual arousal unless you are totally relaxed.
Bend your legs and spread them apart. You can try some erotica at this moment. Try reading an erotic book, watching an adult film or looking at some arousing pictures. These will get you in the mood for more pleasure.The purpose of masturbation is to find out all the pleasure centers in your body. The easiest way to do this is to run your hands all over your body. Try massaging your breasts, circling your navel or touching your inner thighs and the crevice between your thighs and your legs.
When you reach your genitals, try out different kinds of touches and strokes. You can try tickling, stroking, kneading or pinching your vagina very lightly. Don't confine yourself to your fingers only. Use your hands and even your knuckles to stimulate the area.You will get the most amazing orgasm if you learn to hold it back for some time. Try slowing down the level of stimulation when you feel that you are about to have the orgasm. Do not stop it altogether; just stimulate another area for some time. This will not only increase the pleasure from the act, it will help you get multiple orgasms also.Remember to breathe regularly when you are getting the climax. The natural inclination is to hold your breath. However, breathing deeply and regularly will help you get a more intense orgasm.
I also concluded that the impression that women respond similarly to men must be a result of sexual fantasies. Since talking to other women, I now know that women interpret emotional sensations as if they represent true sexual arousal and orgasm.When women like myself ask about lack of orgasm, experts often refer to inhibition or to psychological trauma that might have caused a woman to view sex as 'dirty' or as a 'violation' rather than a loving act involving mutual sexual pleasure. I challenge this suggestion - it seems more likely that the reverse is likely to be true.Women who masturbate to orgasm are LESS sexually inhibited than other women. Not only do they appreciate eroticism enough to enjoy their own sexual fantasies when alone. They are also more willing to engage on a variety of sexual activities with a partner to explore how they might enjoy their own sexual arousal during sex.
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