The Increasing Numbers Of Male Wives

By Gwen Lowe


Reversal of gender roles in todays world is one of the most common phenomena in the society. Although it raises eyebrows, the occurrence of male wives and female husbands is more prevalent in the society than anyone would care to accept. This is a case where the husband takes the roles of the wife in a marriage while the wife takes all the roles of the husband including being the sole bread winner.

In the industrial sense, more and more women are being given the control of positions that in the past were deemed to be for males. This has made them mature enough to take care of their personal relationships in as a better way than they did, and they are taking control. The professional field is fast transcripting this change to their personal lives by giving them more confidence and power.

These empowered women who are having great authority become somehow a threat to the mens authority in the home setting. If they are not at a position to separate their work powers with the family responsibilities, the men are forced to take up their roles. These men will stay at home, do the washing, feed the children and cook for the family.

There are special men who will do this only to show their love to their partners. This cannot be regarded as some form of being controlled but an awesome way of expressing love. It is also another way of breaking from the crazy busy work life and just relaxing at home.

There are men who have married to ladies who have quite an attitude and officious personality. These types of women will nag and throw turn trams till they have what they want. As a gentleman who does not like fighting back, one may choose to step down and let the wife rule the home.

It is important to understand that love drives this kind of change in families. You find that the menfolk are so willing to abandon their control so as to support their wives whom they love. They will cook, clean and even look after the kids as their wives go to attend to their careers.

These men will go as far as dressing as women in the home setting and even wearing makeup. It is not abnormal, and these men should not be deemed as gay because they are not necessarily so. They just love playing the role of the wife in a marriage, and this should be understandable. This is why they have their own support network in order to share experiences.

These wives may be victimized by their more masculine counterparts who feel that they are letting them down, but it is not so. In fact, their manliness is shown off by how well they treat the women in their lives. It is not about the ego but about the deeds that one does to show they really care for their families.




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