"Don't be afraid to let go. Every new adventure begins with the ending of another." - The Better Man Project
Why are we all so frightened to let go of things in our life?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We believe somehow that the past is better than the future because we actually have things to hold onto rather than traveling into the unknown.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
Maybe it was someone you had to walk away from. But you have to remember, that before that person there was another and most likely another before that.
If we stay open, another person will come into your life and heal all of the pain that the previous person had created. They will care for you in ways that makes you feel at ease once again.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And another after that...
One day...someone will come into your life who will completely knock your socks off and love you in a way that you will never want to end. They will refuse to leave you because you mean that much to them and will do anything to keep you.
And how great of a day that will be.
So until that happens, you have to be willing to work with the pains of the past and taking on life's challenges knowing that they are giving you exactly what you need to succeed in life.
Life will always give you precisely what you need vs what you think you want.
These lessons can be difficult and they can harbor a lot of pain, but they are exactly what's necessary to help you grow and move forward with your life.
You will always learn and always grow if you stay open and willing to experience everything that life has to offer you.
That's a very good life. That's a very happy life.
Trust that.
Why are we all so frightened to let go of things in our life?
Honestly, it mostly revolves around the idea that we don't think we will find anything better.
We believe somehow that the past is better than the future because we actually have things to hold onto rather than traveling into the unknown.
But the truth is, when you really look at it, every ending of a story is a bit chaotic but it always births something new. Out of every dark space we have to walk through we end up returning back into the light.
Maybe it was someone you had to walk away from. But you have to remember, that before that person there was another and most likely another before that.
If we stay open, another person will come into your life and heal all of the pain that the previous person had created. They will care for you in ways that makes you feel at ease once again.
And if that relationship falls apart, it will happen again.
And another after that...
One day...someone will come into your life who will completely knock your socks off and love you in a way that you will never want to end. They will refuse to leave you because you mean that much to them and will do anything to keep you.
And how great of a day that will be.
So until that happens, you have to be willing to work with the pains of the past and taking on life's challenges knowing that they are giving you exactly what you need to succeed in life.
Life will always give you precisely what you need vs what you think you want.
These lessons can be difficult and they can harbor a lot of pain, but they are exactly what's necessary to help you grow and move forward with your life.
You will always learn and always grow if you stay open and willing to experience everything that life has to offer you.
That's a very good life. That's a very happy life.
Trust that.
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Need help staying motivated and inspired? Visit Evan Sanders' website called The Better Man Project and dive into these inspirational 24 Undeniably Spot On Tired Quotes and these 43 Perfect Letting Go Quotes For Moving On to start living a better life.
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