A Guide To Dating Muslims For Ladies

By Jerry Murphy


Christianity is the most followed faith around the world with Islam the second largest. Unfortunately, a few extremists mean there is now an association with terrorists but nearly all followers want peace and a normal life. The Koran teaches that people should be charitable and help others. If you are not familiar with Islam and its teachings, dating muslims might be very different from your usual dates.

Prayer is a big part of Islam and strict followers will pray five times a day. If it is not possible to get to a mosque then a quiet corner to spread a prayer mat is acceptable. In Muslim countries it is not unusual to see men praying in public places during prayer times. If the man you are on a date with suddenly excuses himself and is gone longer than a restroom break, it maybe he is quietly praying somewhere.

Sunday is not the holy day it is Friday and on this day they will usually go to the mosque even if they do not go every day. Islam also has holidays and feasts throughout the year where going to the mosque is normal. Your boyfriend is not avoiding meeting your friends if he cries off on days which you think he should be free.

Pork is considered unclean according to Islam so inviting your date to a place that serves pork is not a good idea. Many will not want to eat in any place where the food might be prepared near pork products or where the meat is not halal. Choosing a restaurant that suits both your tastes and needs is easy in big cities but might be more difficult in small towns.

It is traditional for Muslim women to be modest. This does not mean you will need to wear a burka and veil on your date, but very low cut tops and short skirts might raise an eyebrow. Being attractive is fine but attracting the eyes of other men is not encouraged. Flirting with other men is definitely not allowed.

It might be that the relationship gets to the discussions of marriage, and at that time it is likely that you will be asked about conversion to Islam. If you would never consider this but are seeking a marriage partner, then you need to give serious thought to this prospect before the relationship goes too far. Mo matter how much you are in love, religion is a personal choice and converting might not be an option for you.

There are still Islamic countries around the world where it is normal for a man to have up to four wives. He must treat each wife equally, but you might not want to share your husband so make sure this possibility is talked about as the relationship goes on. You could even find your date is married already and is seeking wife number two or three.

It is part of the Muslim culture that the man is the provider and takes care of the family. They are kind and loving to their children and wish to protect their family. Men who were born and raised in Islamic countries are more likely to adhere strictly to the teachings of the Koran. Those born and raised in multi-cultural societies and are well educated are much more likely to be liberal and have more 'western' ways.




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