Halal Dating Among The Youth And The Rules To Follow

By Rebecca Ross


When one hears the term dating the first thing that gets into their mind is intimate relationships and nothing more. This is because the activity is one that does not limit one into one particular category but one that sees no colour, nationality or social class classification. Halal Dating is an activity that is slowly growing and becoming popular in Islam especially amongst the younger generation.

There are rules that define this activity and are all in accordance with the religion and this has seen a growth in the beliefs of courting held by many. These rules are not meant to limit one into a number of things they do while courting but they are meant to create harmony between the activity and the religious beliefs that are observed by the observers of this religion.

The first rule one has to follow when courting is to learn the virtue of self-control in full understanding and adhere by it. This is so as to have the ability to control your personal felling hence not letting them get in the way with God. When one does this then you prove your respect to God, your future partner and also you respect your own body by not giving in to earthly wants.

It is the right to do the right Taaruf which is an activity similar to seeing in Islam one only engages in this after they have considered a number of options like are their income stable enough to support a marriage, do they have enough knowledge to help with maintaining and keeping a marriage and the last question is if there is anyone special someone to fulfil your life and if you should tell them.

The next rule is for those who have not yet been fortunate enough to land a future partner and this becomes the best chance for them to ask for help from those they trust to know and heed their help in getting a partner. For those who have found a special someone and have not yet declared their intentions for marriage this is also the right time to do so.

At this stage, it is already established who you intend to marry and you are now both ready to take it to the step of marriage. Now you can start to date in Taaruf and know the type of courting that is acknowledged in Islam in order to go by the activity in the right manner. It is also at this stage where one gets the chance to decide whether or not they want to continue dating.

The advantages that come with halal seeing are quite numerous and at often times will help in ending a relationship in better terms in comparison to regular seeing. One is able to maintain a friendship of greater lengths with their partner when the eventually get married.

Not every person will be fully supportive of this and this often leaves some creating the criteria in which it occurs. When one is not yet ready for marriage and has already engaged in halal courting this becomes a golden chance to build an intimate relationship with God.




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