Female Psychology That You Can Use To Get Your Girlfriend Back

By Alisha Eino


This might sound like a stupid questions but are you sure that you really love your ex boyfriend? Do you love him or do you just want to get him back? Find out the truth before you move forward with your plans to win him over.

You are sure that you are still in love with your ex boyfriend. You want him back in your life every day. You want to talk to him when good things happen in your life and when bad things happen but do you truly love him?

You have Made The Decision To Get Back With Your Ex You've decided that you had a good relationship and you miss it. The primary reason that should push you for reconciliation with your ex girlfriend or boyfriend is the fact that you yourself want him or her back again. If you are not willing, or if you have concerns about it, then getting back with your ex is possibly not the best thing for you to do. It's not easy to make a romantic relationship work if you are not totally invested in making it work in the first place, so make certain that your heart is set on getting back together.

On the other hand, if you want to get back together with him because you want to be sure that he loves only you and is with only you in a relationship then we're talking about something completely different. Love is also involved in such a relationship but loving someone doesn't mean that they have to be with you.

Are You Willing To Settle Issues? Both of you need to be willing to deal with whatever issues you suffered from in your relationship. If you and your ex girlfriend or boyfriend are both prepared to sit down to talk as well as try to work out these problems, then that is a good indication that you may be able to get back together.

In order for you to win her back and make her feel those loving feelings again, you need to erase the past and trigger those emotions that equal love in her mind and her heart. In order for her to forget about your moments of weakness, you should spend a little time apart from her and stop chasing her. A real man doesn't chase a woman. He allows the woman to show interest in him first and then he sweeps her off her feet. She doesn't want to hear words. She wants to see action in your life. You need to be strong and decisive in everything that you do. Forget about those weak, needy ways and start making things happen in your life.

Try these exercises for a week or two and see if you notice any changes in your boyfriend. In addition, spend some time thinking about loving him selflessly. Try to love him without thinking about yourself or your needs and see if there is a change in you. You very well might lose the anxiety and stress and depression often associated with a breakup and you might find that he starts showing you a little more attention.




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