You've finally found a guy that you're attracted to. He's everything that you dream of. Unfortunately, it's as if he doesn't know that you're alive. What can you do to get his attention and make him want to spend time with you? How can you let him know that you're interested in him and make him take the first step?
Before we get started, it really isn't important how you look or how you feel you compare to other women. Even though you have been told that looks are very important to me, when it comes to long term relationships and true love, how you look is less important than you may think. A man will fall in love with a woman based solely upon how he feels when he's with her. He will fall in love with a woman that makes him feel good when he's in her presence before he will fall in love with a girl that looks like a model. This is a fact and one that you should always keep in mind when you feel inferior to any other woman out there competing for a man's attention.
The first thing you can concentrate on to get his attention and make him notice you is your smile. We all look more pleasant when we smile at someone that we adore. Something truly glorious happens to us. Your face will have a glow to it and your eyes will sparkle when you look at him. This special kind of smile will convey your emotions silently to him and he will find it attractive.
Now, we're not talking about the same smile that you use with your boss or the guy at the coffee shop. This is not your typical cheesy smile that is given to everyone. This smile is fueled by your adoration for this man. You can practice this by closing your eyes and thinking of him holding your hand for the first time or kissing you for the first time. When you open your eyes there should be a nice, cheery smile on your face and you might even be blushing a little bit. Keep this in mind the next time you see him and give him that coy smile that says everything he needs to know without a word.
Another trick that you can use to leverage a man's visual nature is to change your style a little bit. No matter if you see him often or only from time to time, he probably knows what you look like and how you normally appear to him. In order to trick his mind into thinking that you have changed, you can change your appearance or style just a little bit. There's no need for huge changes or a drastic makeover. Simply changing your style temporarily to show a different side of you to him is what we are trying to do.
For instance, if you normally dress casually then perhaps you can try dressing up for a change. If you normally wear jeans and tennis shoes, try wearing a pair of high heels with those jeans. If you like wearing high heels and skirt with your hair down, try a long dress with your hair up. If you always look dressed up, try a more casual look with a pair of jean and a hat for a change. The whole idea is to make him view you differently, take notice of you and become interested in you.
When was the last time that you touched the guy you're interested in? Touching a man can begin to create a connection with him and give him a pleasant feeling. The next time you see him, touch his shoulder or arm. Whether you're talking with him or just saying hello in passing, be daring and touch him. This is a non-verbal way of showing closeness and telling him that you're interested in him. You might be nervous that he doesn't like to be touched or scared that he will pull away from you but you can be sure that none of these things will happen. No woman every got in trouble for incidental contact in passing or when talking. It only takes a couple of minutes and the message you send will be felt loud and clear.
While groping him at work, if you work with him, might get you into trouble, touching like this isn't unheard of. There are actually managers that use this technique to create rapport with workers under them. Touching creates a bond or subliminal connection with the person you are touching and in many cultures it's quite acceptable if not the norm. Touching is more powerful than any kind words that you could tell him at this point. It's innocent and he will feel that you're affectionate and unconsciously feel attracted to you.
Even if you feel that some of these tricks are simple, they are effective. If you are shy and you believe that you could never do any of these things, remember that most of these tricks are non-verbal. You're not going to have to say a thing. Be brave and be strong. Having a deep, fulfilling relationship with the man of your dreams is worth stepping outside the box for a short period of time. This is the exciting part of the relationship where you get to make him chase you. These methods are sure to get his attention and make him want to get closer to you if you are simply brave enough to try them out on the man of your dreams.
Before we get started, it really isn't important how you look or how you feel you compare to other women. Even though you have been told that looks are very important to me, when it comes to long term relationships and true love, how you look is less important than you may think. A man will fall in love with a woman based solely upon how he feels when he's with her. He will fall in love with a woman that makes him feel good when he's in her presence before he will fall in love with a girl that looks like a model. This is a fact and one that you should always keep in mind when you feel inferior to any other woman out there competing for a man's attention.
The first thing you can concentrate on to get his attention and make him notice you is your smile. We all look more pleasant when we smile at someone that we adore. Something truly glorious happens to us. Your face will have a glow to it and your eyes will sparkle when you look at him. This special kind of smile will convey your emotions silently to him and he will find it attractive.
Now, we're not talking about the same smile that you use with your boss or the guy at the coffee shop. This is not your typical cheesy smile that is given to everyone. This smile is fueled by your adoration for this man. You can practice this by closing your eyes and thinking of him holding your hand for the first time or kissing you for the first time. When you open your eyes there should be a nice, cheery smile on your face and you might even be blushing a little bit. Keep this in mind the next time you see him and give him that coy smile that says everything he needs to know without a word.
Another trick that you can use to leverage a man's visual nature is to change your style a little bit. No matter if you see him often or only from time to time, he probably knows what you look like and how you normally appear to him. In order to trick his mind into thinking that you have changed, you can change your appearance or style just a little bit. There's no need for huge changes or a drastic makeover. Simply changing your style temporarily to show a different side of you to him is what we are trying to do.
For instance, if you normally dress casually then perhaps you can try dressing up for a change. If you normally wear jeans and tennis shoes, try wearing a pair of high heels with those jeans. If you like wearing high heels and skirt with your hair down, try a long dress with your hair up. If you always look dressed up, try a more casual look with a pair of jean and a hat for a change. The whole idea is to make him view you differently, take notice of you and become interested in you.
When was the last time that you touched the guy you're interested in? Touching a man can begin to create a connection with him and give him a pleasant feeling. The next time you see him, touch his shoulder or arm. Whether you're talking with him or just saying hello in passing, be daring and touch him. This is a non-verbal way of showing closeness and telling him that you're interested in him. You might be nervous that he doesn't like to be touched or scared that he will pull away from you but you can be sure that none of these things will happen. No woman every got in trouble for incidental contact in passing or when talking. It only takes a couple of minutes and the message you send will be felt loud and clear.
While groping him at work, if you work with him, might get you into trouble, touching like this isn't unheard of. There are actually managers that use this technique to create rapport with workers under them. Touching creates a bond or subliminal connection with the person you are touching and in many cultures it's quite acceptable if not the norm. Touching is more powerful than any kind words that you could tell him at this point. It's innocent and he will feel that you're affectionate and unconsciously feel attracted to you.
Even if you feel that some of these tricks are simple, they are effective. If you are shy and you believe that you could never do any of these things, remember that most of these tricks are non-verbal. You're not going to have to say a thing. Be brave and be strong. Having a deep, fulfilling relationship with the man of your dreams is worth stepping outside the box for a short period of time. This is the exciting part of the relationship where you get to make him chase you. These methods are sure to get his attention and make him want to get closer to you if you are simply brave enough to try them out on the man of your dreams.
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