Having Jewish Christian Interfaith Wedding

By Michael Lewis


As people from all walks of life and religions meet one another so the need for interfaith weddings has grown. Jewish Christian interfaith wedding has grown exponentially as couples from these two religions want to get married. It can be a difficult time especially when parents, family and friends expect to have the ceremony either in a Church or Synagogue.

Many opt to do both and by doing this pleasing all those involved. Sometimes this is not the case and one partner will agree to have it in a Synagogue. Interfaith Rabbis can be consulted as to the best way to go about this and will have many suggestions for consideration.

For those looking to convert to another faith, this is a harder road than anticipated. To convert to Judaism is a long and arduous path and one has to be totally committed in taking on this new found religion. There are many laws and practices to learn and participate in and to become a fully fledged Jew or Jewess can take years to accomplish.

But if a couple just wants to have a Jewish feel to the wedding then this is easily accomplished today by consulting with an interfaith Rabbi. There is much to celebrate and a few of the customs of a wedding can be done such as breaking of the glass after vows have been taken. The breaking of a glass is done by the groom and this commemorates the destruction of both temples a long time ago.

It all depends to what degree of kashrut the couple would like to have. Kashrut is the term used for those laws that govern dietary laws and this can also be discussed with the Rabbi. This is just one area that must be adhered to in order to become a Jew. Dietary laws are strict, from slaughtering an animal to its consumption.

Others such as shark for instance are not kosher and may not be eaten. Also seafoods such as crabs, lobster and prawns are also a no no and should not be served at all. Some guests may be offended if these are served so it is best to cater for all. It is an aveirah to eat something that is not allowed.

There are many other considerations to consider if one is thinking about converting to any faith. There are many festivals and customs that must be adhered to in order to be considered either a Jew or Christian. Many today are more liberal and will celebrate both religions festivals and incorporate them into their yearly regimen.

Some for instance, if they decide to bring children into this world, will celebrate both Chanukah and Christmas at the same time over this period. It can get confusing for children to know and understand where they belong however, liberal Jews and Christians do not mind this and incorporate these festivals in their celebrations each and every year. It really does not have to be that complicated especially if one is not willing to convert.




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