Playing it cool can sometimes be difficult when you find a girl that you really like. These moments at the beginning of a relationship are the best. She's beautiful and funny and you could talk to her forever. You connect on so many levels and she's all you think about. You really want things to work out but you're freaked out that you're going to mess things up. You don't want to say the wrong things but you want to be sure that the relationship moves along. How do you walk that line that borders showing interest without going overboard? How can you let her know that you're really interested in her without blowing it?
First of all, try not to stress yourself out too much. Everything is fine. Allow things to take their natural course and try not to push the relationship along too much. While you might be tempted to want to clarify where this relationship is going, doing so could destroy what might be the perfect relationship for both of you. She knows that you like her. If not, then that is fine too. Providing a little mystery about where your heart stands often causes a woman to be more attracted to you. Even though women will never admit to it, they will chase after a guy that is a bit aloof or mysterious. Inversely, they will often reject a man that appears to be too attracted to them. Avoid the temptation to spill your guts and tell her how wonderful you think she is until you feel that the feeling is mutual.
Next, just be yourself. Too many guys put a lot of effort into portraying themselves as something that they're not while hoping to impress a girl. Avoid talking too much about yourself and instead focus on getting to know her. Bring her out of her shell and get her to share he hopes, dreams and aspirations with you. People, in general, like to talk about themselves so give her the chance to try to impress you. As a result, she will feel that you are truly interested in her and this line of dialogue will give her a feeling of being connected to you. When you take this approach, everything in the relationship happens naturally and you don't have to worry.
Third, any time you feel yourself becoming nervous, needy or freaking out, remove yourself from the situation for a few minutes so you can get your bearings. Go to the bathroom or step outside for a couple of minutes. Breathe deep and tell yourself that you can handle this. She likes you and is showing interest in you. You like her so show her that you're genuine and that you have the best intentions. Nobody is going to steal her away from you during those five minutes and if you're worrying about that then you need to check your jealousy at the door also.
When you find a girl that you really like, getting into a relationship with her is a lot easier than you think. Try not to complicate this and enjoy the dance. This is the truly fun part of the relationship and it's not the destination that you should be focusing on. It's the journey that will make having her in your life so enjoyable for both of you.
First of all, try not to stress yourself out too much. Everything is fine. Allow things to take their natural course and try not to push the relationship along too much. While you might be tempted to want to clarify where this relationship is going, doing so could destroy what might be the perfect relationship for both of you. She knows that you like her. If not, then that is fine too. Providing a little mystery about where your heart stands often causes a woman to be more attracted to you. Even though women will never admit to it, they will chase after a guy that is a bit aloof or mysterious. Inversely, they will often reject a man that appears to be too attracted to them. Avoid the temptation to spill your guts and tell her how wonderful you think she is until you feel that the feeling is mutual.
Next, just be yourself. Too many guys put a lot of effort into portraying themselves as something that they're not while hoping to impress a girl. Avoid talking too much about yourself and instead focus on getting to know her. Bring her out of her shell and get her to share he hopes, dreams and aspirations with you. People, in general, like to talk about themselves so give her the chance to try to impress you. As a result, she will feel that you are truly interested in her and this line of dialogue will give her a feeling of being connected to you. When you take this approach, everything in the relationship happens naturally and you don't have to worry.
Third, any time you feel yourself becoming nervous, needy or freaking out, remove yourself from the situation for a few minutes so you can get your bearings. Go to the bathroom or step outside for a couple of minutes. Breathe deep and tell yourself that you can handle this. She likes you and is showing interest in you. You like her so show her that you're genuine and that you have the best intentions. Nobody is going to steal her away from you during those five minutes and if you're worrying about that then you need to check your jealousy at the door also.
When you find a girl that you really like, getting into a relationship with her is a lot easier than you think. Try not to complicate this and enjoy the dance. This is the truly fun part of the relationship and it's not the destination that you should be focusing on. It's the journey that will make having her in your life so enjoyable for both of you.
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