Discover The Art Of Flirting

By Brett Vaughan


Flirting is known to be a helpful skill that some people have while some have to acquire it through practice in order to master it. The basic rule of learning the art of flirting is overcoming the fear of strangers whereby one assumes that every stranger is dangerous. Instead, people should take advantage of the anonymity of flirting with a stranger or any random person.

For those that have a hard time approaching other people, and lack the confidence to do so need practice which is better done by approaching random stranger and learning how to initiate a conversation. This way, one has nothing to lose if they make a fool out of themselves since they probably never meet these people again which build their confidence before they meet the right person.

Basically, the more one practices this art the more they get comfortable in doing it as one learns what is good for them and how to take a blow of their ego especially when rejected. Once one has perfected doing it with strangers it is usually time to move to semi-stranger and so on as one gets better at it. With time, one gathers the confident to approach the person that has been making your pulse speed up.

In this game there are those that may seem intimidating which bring the fear of approaching them; in this case, one should assume that their target is waiting for them to go ahead which is probably the case most of the times. For those that have gone through the exchanging numbers part and maybe even saliva, it usually is easier as they have more confidence to withstand rejection.

More often than not, using the eyes is usually the first step in flirting, then the mouth and a little bit of some coyness in the case of women. The signs used by men and women differ as there are those used by women by may seem lame when used by men. For instance, women are allowed to act coy while men are expected to be confident; moreover, women have also evolved in the sense that they also approach men.

Flirting does not have a definite place that can be said to be appropriate for it; however, one should have the ability to see it when others are sending signals and hints. For instance, one should know that when someone blinks, smile and somewhat acts coy they probably are telling them to approach them. Moreover, there should be a limit for everything as it gets weird when one overdoes it.

Flirting is a process that hints one step to the other; it starts with hints from the eyes, goes to a smile and body language which show that it is the right time to approach. The ability to ignite a conversation is indispensable as one need to keep the conversation flowing just to avoid the awkwardness especially when it is a stranger. With time, one should initiate some coziness just to break the touch barrier but ensure it is not offensive.

For a successful flirting moment, there are certain rules that come in handy making it interesting and fun. For people who want to secure a second date it is important to be careful and ensure that one leaves when the date is going very well. This way, one leaves a suspense that lets the other person want to meet again and finish what was started.




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