Love The Man In Him

By Evan Sanders


He is not going to be perfect. In fact , he may be completely different than you believed he would ever be. He is going to mess up, fail repeatedly, and lose himself once in a while. He will be in doubt, insecure occasionally and disappoint you. His fluidity at times when the ocean roars will confuse you. His quietness when life rips the rug out from him will make you wonder where he went. Did he leave? Did he drift away into some faraway land? He'll, once in a while, escape into his anger, fear and anxiety. He is going to suffer and wrench deep within his soul. He's going to need to leave for a while, going off on his very own to answer questions only solitude will supply him with. He'll have times where he is weak in front of you, cry even, and lose the strength he had because he's been overly strong in the world too long. He'll go back and forth in his decisions from time to time and you'll question whether he'll ever make them. He'll do all those things and many more.

But when you have a man, a real man, his compass will always come back true.

If you really love the man, he will be your mountain, the unmovable rock in your life whenever and wherever you need him. He's going to be your biggest fan, no matter the circumstance or situation, he's going to be there for you in any fashion he can. If you deeply love the man in him, he's going to stand in face of your chaos, waves crashing about him, and regardless of how much the blackness of your feelings try to test him, he can always stand strong. If you adore the man, he'll push you to dream as big as you can and help you to see the bigger picture. He will be able to bring something out in you that you never thought you could have in your life. If you love the imperfect man, he is going to help you bloom and moment by moment, bring you out of your darkest moods into open love. If you respect the man he'll be your equal, knowing that together you could be more than you would ever be apart. If you love the man he is going to love you as much as he truly loves life itself, deep inside knowing that you are his joy and he is absolutely your light.

He's going to want to be your hero, your companion, the king to the queen you are. If you adore the man you'll evoke grand passions from him, the deepest feelings he will be able to muster and he's going to share them with you because somewhere way down in his heart he really does trust you.

When you have a man in your life, he's going to be certain inside all of this doubt and uncertainty. He's going to disappear to find his answers and come back to you continuously. He will writhe with his decisions and then make them, moving forward with conviction and bring you along the ride for the best adventures of your life. He will feel his insecurity and doubt, and trot out a confidence which will settle your heart. If you adore the this imperfect man, he will look at you and not try to say anything, because he will be able to feel into you and already knows what your heart desires. If you care for the man, he's going to do anything for you. He will cross oceans for you. He will move mountains for you. It might not look like you thought it might, but if you really love the man in him, he will bring a love out in you that will light your soul on fire, and together, you can change the future.




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