Oh To Love, How Rare That Truly Is

By Evan Sanders


Oh to deeply love, how rare that really is. The things we love in this world last only so long. Yes, it may only be 5 minutes, 5 years, or a complete lifetime, but in the end we eventually part. How truly lucky we are to have something so wonderful at one time that makes the ending of the journey so hard. But for those who love unconditionally...for those who love with their whole heart and understand that we are all sentenced to an end, we stay present with the people we really love. We make that moment last as long as we can because who truly knows when those moments will be no more in our lives. Our love is the thing that miracles are made of. Our love is the thing that will actually and accurately change the world . We see friends and family all the time fall in love with something they are doing, and the world changes around them. We see people who fall in love with somebody, and their energy, the two of them together as a unit creates something that other people can honestly see and feel.

Love rises above all else.

Love is a variety of energy that really cannot be explained.

Words are no match for it. Even when the finest of words are used in the most elegant way, only a scratch is made on actually describing what love is. This is the reason why our hearts literally break when love crashes and burns. Recovery appears as distant cousin. We enter into a true state of loss because the person we were with were actually was our other set of eyes, hands and legs.

Our buddies, our work, our close relationships, all can be deeply loved. Not childish "love" but I am really talking about the type of really deep and exposed love, where you have no fear in your consciousness about telling that person the worst about yourself, the methods of madness you have kept secret, because you know that love rises above all. You give someone the tools to totally destroy you down to your core, and you trust them with everything inside you not to.

Love unfortunately can become a short-lived thing.

And that's how it is meant to be. As human beings, we try to hold onto the nice stuff as much as we can, but often the good just runs out and the balance of life takes a dip from what we had. We are supposed to be brought down, so we will be able to, in reality, rise again. I've always thought that the person I truly fell madly in love with, my soulmate, wouldn't simply just be the one that would be on the up and up with me, but the person that would support me and even help me walk through those dips in life.

The love that I have felt during the past has been glorious, life changing, phenomenal, and yet at all the same time momentary. Things happen, things change, and as the years have gone by, I've found more methods to appreciate what I had versus what I lost. I believe that truly has been a major turning point for me. My soul opens like a blooming flower every time I give myself the chance to experience life. The good and the bad. The strength of a great redwood is built into my core and flowers of expertise, fervour, and wisdom bloom through my soul.

We are designed to experience the events we do on the paths we fervently choose.

Hold onto what you can while you have it and terribly love those around you. Cold and hard hearts are for the feeble. That is fear speaking. That is only fear trying to offer protection to the one thing you know that could really make you vulnerable. Overt and plain-talking strength is not strength in any way. It's weakness attempting to convince an audience that it's something else.

True vulnerability and a delicate heart is true strength. The trail permits you to confront even your greatest fears with passion and spirit.

Love seriously.

Love zealously.

Love vulnerably.

Love with no fear.




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