How to Make Him Feel Loved? (Understand Him Now)
I have observed a lot of women who don't understand why their men
feel unloved. They do everything in their power to meet all the needs
of the relationship. They provide sex. They do good housekeeping. They
fill their man's stomach with delicious food. But still, their men paint
an unloved picture of them.
Their men keep on complaining, keep on fighting, and keep on feeling unloved all the time.
That's so disheartening! And, a dangerous situation too. Because, when a man feels unloved, he tries to find love somewhere else. Some other woman takes your place in his heart...
Therefore, it's always better to solve this problem as soon as possible.
Keeping a man happy is not an impossible dream. Fortunately, you just need to employ one specific strategy.
"Fulfill His Demand."
Yes! That's it!!!
Focus on fulfilling his demand only. That's how he will feel loved.
- If he wants you to be a better cook, just be a better cook. Focus on cooking delicious food.
- If he wants you to encourage him, encourage him. Appreciate his efforts, give him positive feedback, motivate him.
- If he complains about your negative behavior, be positive. Laugh openly. Relish life. Celebrate everything.
- If he wants you to pay attention to good housekeeping, just focus on doing good housekeeping.
- If he wants to spend quality time with you, be affectionate and spend time of love & harmony with him.
Just fulfill his demand, and don't worry about the other things. This is the only strategy you need to make your man feel loved. Because, other things don't matter to him. The only thing which matters to him, he always demands it from you. And, when you fulfill his demand, he feels like he has got the best woman on this planet. He starts worshipping you with love & affections.
Let me give you a few more examples.
Let's say, I love non-fiction books. But, my wife gives me novels, science books, and biographies as a gift and expects me to be so much happy, because she has done so much for me. Do you really think I would be happy according to her expectations? Or, will I feel resentful because she doesn't understand what I actually love?
Let's say your husband badly desires your encouraging & positive words, but you keep on pointing out faults in him and discourage him all the time. Do you really think your other works - like cooking, sex, and household services - will make him feel loved?
Of course not!
If your man desires 'A'. Focus your attention on 'A'. Don't worry about B, C, D, and F; they won't make your man feel loved... Your focus on 'A' only will make him feel happy & loved. Because, 'A' is your man's primary need.
You must have seen many relationships in which you don't understand how a man is happy. Because, his woman doesn't do anything. She doesn't cook. She doesn't pay attention on housekeeping. She doesn't know anything about fashion... But still, her man keeps on showering his love on her. He just keeps her as a queen.
The thing you don't understand is that, that woman must be fulfilling his one specific natural demand - consciously or unconsciously. That's why he feels so happy and loved. He feels that he has got the best woman of this world. And in return, he does everything in his power to keep her happy too.
Now, let's talk about you. What do you demand the most in the relationship? Do you demand quality time? Do you demand romance? Do you demand him to help you with housekeeping? Do you demand sex? Or, do you demand fun?
If you also have some specific demand, ask him to fulfill it. Don't order him. And, don't force him. Instead, after fulfilling his demand, and after making him feel loved, just tell him with love what makes you feel loved. And, tell him your demand... Once you make him understand with love that what makes you feel loved, he beams with excitement and redouble his effort to fulfill your demand.
There must be something which you demand specifically. And, you know that, if your husband will fulfill your that specific demand, you will feel loved. You'll have positive feelings for your husband. And, you'll feel that you are in the most beautiful relationship.
Your man is exactly like you. He must have one specific demand. Fulfill it. He'll feel loved and scatter happiness around you all the time.
Their men keep on complaining, keep on fighting, and keep on feeling unloved all the time.
That's so disheartening! And, a dangerous situation too. Because, when a man feels unloved, he tries to find love somewhere else. Some other woman takes your place in his heart...
Therefore, it's always better to solve this problem as soon as possible.
Keeping a man happy is not an impossible dream. Fortunately, you just need to employ one specific strategy.
"Fulfill His Demand."
Yes! That's it!!!
Focus on fulfilling his demand only. That's how he will feel loved.
- If he wants you to be a better cook, just be a better cook. Focus on cooking delicious food.
- If he wants you to encourage him, encourage him. Appreciate his efforts, give him positive feedback, motivate him.
- If he complains about your negative behavior, be positive. Laugh openly. Relish life. Celebrate everything.
- If he wants you to pay attention to good housekeeping, just focus on doing good housekeeping.
- If he wants to spend quality time with you, be affectionate and spend time of love & harmony with him.
Just fulfill his demand, and don't worry about the other things. This is the only strategy you need to make your man feel loved. Because, other things don't matter to him. The only thing which matters to him, he always demands it from you. And, when you fulfill his demand, he feels like he has got the best woman on this planet. He starts worshipping you with love & affections.
Let me give you a few more examples.
Let's say, I love non-fiction books. But, my wife gives me novels, science books, and biographies as a gift and expects me to be so much happy, because she has done so much for me. Do you really think I would be happy according to her expectations? Or, will I feel resentful because she doesn't understand what I actually love?
Let's say your husband badly desires your encouraging & positive words, but you keep on pointing out faults in him and discourage him all the time. Do you really think your other works - like cooking, sex, and household services - will make him feel loved?
Of course not!
If your man desires 'A'. Focus your attention on 'A'. Don't worry about B, C, D, and F; they won't make your man feel loved... Your focus on 'A' only will make him feel happy & loved. Because, 'A' is your man's primary need.
You must have seen many relationships in which you don't understand how a man is happy. Because, his woman doesn't do anything. She doesn't cook. She doesn't pay attention on housekeeping. She doesn't know anything about fashion... But still, her man keeps on showering his love on her. He just keeps her as a queen.
The thing you don't understand is that, that woman must be fulfilling his one specific natural demand - consciously or unconsciously. That's why he feels so happy and loved. He feels that he has got the best woman of this world. And in return, he does everything in his power to keep her happy too.
Now, let's talk about you. What do you demand the most in the relationship? Do you demand quality time? Do you demand romance? Do you demand him to help you with housekeeping? Do you demand sex? Or, do you demand fun?
If you also have some specific demand, ask him to fulfill it. Don't order him. And, don't force him. Instead, after fulfilling his demand, and after making him feel loved, just tell him with love what makes you feel loved. And, tell him your demand... Once you make him understand with love that what makes you feel loved, he beams with excitement and redouble his effort to fulfill your demand.
There must be something which you demand specifically. And, you know that, if your husband will fulfill your that specific demand, you will feel loved. You'll have positive feelings for your husband. And, you'll feel that you are in the most beautiful relationship.
Your man is exactly like you. He must have one specific demand. Fulfill it. He'll feel loved and scatter happiness around you all the time.
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