Stop Being Right, Start Being Happy
Don't slather your happiness with your ego for being right. You
can evince yourself right later, when the moment is right and when all
the cards are favoring you.
You can't garner happiness by imprinting that you are right all the time. If you will try to do that, either he will feel inferior or situation will turn into a battlefield. You can fulfill your ego like this, but you will murder the quality of your relationship.
Relationships are sensitive - extremely sensitive. Simple things can make or break them. A small conflict, rude smile, and egoistic look can set the foundations of infidelity.
Words Are Beautiful
Your words paint the picture. Never use them as a weapon.
When your words impose that you are right all the time, your relationship begins to crumble. You unconsciously assassinate his character, and damage his ego. Consequently, he feels resentful and try to dominate you through verbal aggression.
Hundreds of women asked me this question: "He is verbally aggressive, what should I do?" And, I always tell them, "Don't be right all the time. Don't impose that your decisions are superior than him. This approach injects aggression in his veins and compel him to assault you verbally."
I know you are honest. I know you love him. I know that you think good about him. But, your way is not right. When you correct him, it appears to him that you are trying to impose he is inferior and you are superior, and only you know what's right and what's wrong, and you think he is a brainless child with immature character.
He goes berserk.
He refuses to give in. He quarrels to dominate and does a good deal of damage to the relationship. Destructive fights start to take a permanent place in your life and signs of unhappy marriages begins to appear. After some time, you both either suppress your emotions or withdraw from the relationship.
Now I am not saying that you shouldn't fight. Of course, you should fight. But, it should be a 'Constructive Fight'. Constructive fight is known as 'Improved Communication'. It's a fight in which you assure him that you are proud of his decisions, you value his maturity, you believe that he is the best among other men.
Instead of demeaning his character with your words, let him experience his own bad decisions. Let him realize by himself that he is on a mistake, and his acts are not only damaging his own personality but also hurting your feelings.
You just focus on using your beautiful words for respecting his personality, emotions, and decisions. Your beautiful words keep his mind soft. They keep him in the state of listening. Therefore, he shares his feelings with you, he understands you, and he always agrees with you.
If you feel that he's making some major mistake, or his decisions will create trouble for you, you can say: "Honey, you are saying right. I agree with you. I'm amazed how you resolve things so easily. I love you!" After that, hug him, kiss him, and say again, "I am just not getting this point. Please tell me more about it... Can we do things like this?"
These beautiful, simple sentences will always work like magic. They will help you to seem like the most mellifluous lady of this world. He will also slather himself with the feelings of love, and reply you with the best possible manner. Your beautiful words will keep his mind soft and influence him to agree with you if he is on a mistake.
So, stop imposing that you are right all the time. Instead, use beautiful words. He will be influenced automatically.
Happiness Is Sexy
Happiness is sexually stimulating. The more you stay happy, the more you stay beautiful, the more you stay attractive, the more you relish romance, and the more you have sex.
You live like a queen.
Your happy face, happy energy, and happy laugh have an immense amount of power. You can't even imagine it. If today you will stay happy, tomorrow you will end 80% of your problems. Your happy state will attract your man and compel him to think what he adds into your life. He will love to spend time with you and find more ways to keep you happy.
It's a natural phenomenon.
The ladies who stay happy, get more gifts, more affection, more love, and more sex. Happiness is like a drug. It's sexy. It attracts everyone.
When men cheat, what do you think? Do they spend their time with some unhappy, average woman? Of course not. There will always be a happy, radiant woman who will attract him and allure him to cheat. When men live with an unhappy woman in their home, a happy woman always looks like a heaven to them.
That's why, whenever my clients come to me with their problems, I always advise them to stay happy first. Because, I know, happiness not only protects the relationship but also resolve 80 percent of the conflicts immediately. When your man sees you happy, he doesn't want to bring anything negative in the relationship. He wants by himself to resolve the issues as soon as he can so that he can spend his time in your arms, in a happy mood.
Savour Small Details
Happiness is in the details. Small details. You don't need to wait for some special occasion for expressing your happiness. The more simple you are, the more it's better. I've put together 3 special tips for you that can put you in the state of happiness every day.
(1) Play your favorite music and dance, or learn to dance with him. Playful dancing slather you with happy aura and garner moments of laughs and closeness. Both of you do silly and fun things and laugh out loud. Plus, your flirtatious, silly moves hypnotize him completely.
(2) There are various studies that have proved that, "Happy Visuals Create Happy Life." That's why, there are many people in our society who love to hang romantic paintings on their walls, and, you believe it or not, those romantic paintings significantly increase happiness and romance in their lives.
(3) Laugh together. Play together. Taste food together. Because, this is a wonderful pattern for creating intimacy and staying happy.
You can't garner happiness by imprinting that you are right all the time. If you will try to do that, either he will feel inferior or situation will turn into a battlefield. You can fulfill your ego like this, but you will murder the quality of your relationship.
Relationships are sensitive - extremely sensitive. Simple things can make or break them. A small conflict, rude smile, and egoistic look can set the foundations of infidelity.
Words Are Beautiful
Your words paint the picture. Never use them as a weapon.
When your words impose that you are right all the time, your relationship begins to crumble. You unconsciously assassinate his character, and damage his ego. Consequently, he feels resentful and try to dominate you through verbal aggression.
Hundreds of women asked me this question: "He is verbally aggressive, what should I do?" And, I always tell them, "Don't be right all the time. Don't impose that your decisions are superior than him. This approach injects aggression in his veins and compel him to assault you verbally."
I know you are honest. I know you love him. I know that you think good about him. But, your way is not right. When you correct him, it appears to him that you are trying to impose he is inferior and you are superior, and only you know what's right and what's wrong, and you think he is a brainless child with immature character.
He goes berserk.
He refuses to give in. He quarrels to dominate and does a good deal of damage to the relationship. Destructive fights start to take a permanent place in your life and signs of unhappy marriages begins to appear. After some time, you both either suppress your emotions or withdraw from the relationship.
Now I am not saying that you shouldn't fight. Of course, you should fight. But, it should be a 'Constructive Fight'. Constructive fight is known as 'Improved Communication'. It's a fight in which you assure him that you are proud of his decisions, you value his maturity, you believe that he is the best among other men.
Instead of demeaning his character with your words, let him experience his own bad decisions. Let him realize by himself that he is on a mistake, and his acts are not only damaging his own personality but also hurting your feelings.
You just focus on using your beautiful words for respecting his personality, emotions, and decisions. Your beautiful words keep his mind soft. They keep him in the state of listening. Therefore, he shares his feelings with you, he understands you, and he always agrees with you.
If you feel that he's making some major mistake, or his decisions will create trouble for you, you can say: "Honey, you are saying right. I agree with you. I'm amazed how you resolve things so easily. I love you!" After that, hug him, kiss him, and say again, "I am just not getting this point. Please tell me more about it... Can we do things like this?"
These beautiful, simple sentences will always work like magic. They will help you to seem like the most mellifluous lady of this world. He will also slather himself with the feelings of love, and reply you with the best possible manner. Your beautiful words will keep his mind soft and influence him to agree with you if he is on a mistake.
So, stop imposing that you are right all the time. Instead, use beautiful words. He will be influenced automatically.
Happiness Is Sexy
Happiness is sexually stimulating. The more you stay happy, the more you stay beautiful, the more you stay attractive, the more you relish romance, and the more you have sex.
You live like a queen.
Your happy face, happy energy, and happy laugh have an immense amount of power. You can't even imagine it. If today you will stay happy, tomorrow you will end 80% of your problems. Your happy state will attract your man and compel him to think what he adds into your life. He will love to spend time with you and find more ways to keep you happy.
It's a natural phenomenon.
The ladies who stay happy, get more gifts, more affection, more love, and more sex. Happiness is like a drug. It's sexy. It attracts everyone.
When men cheat, what do you think? Do they spend their time with some unhappy, average woman? Of course not. There will always be a happy, radiant woman who will attract him and allure him to cheat. When men live with an unhappy woman in their home, a happy woman always looks like a heaven to them.
That's why, whenever my clients come to me with their problems, I always advise them to stay happy first. Because, I know, happiness not only protects the relationship but also resolve 80 percent of the conflicts immediately. When your man sees you happy, he doesn't want to bring anything negative in the relationship. He wants by himself to resolve the issues as soon as he can so that he can spend his time in your arms, in a happy mood.
Savour Small Details
Happiness is in the details. Small details. You don't need to wait for some special occasion for expressing your happiness. The more simple you are, the more it's better. I've put together 3 special tips for you that can put you in the state of happiness every day.
(1) Play your favorite music and dance, or learn to dance with him. Playful dancing slather you with happy aura and garner moments of laughs and closeness. Both of you do silly and fun things and laugh out loud. Plus, your flirtatious, silly moves hypnotize him completely.
(2) There are various studies that have proved that, "Happy Visuals Create Happy Life." That's why, there are many people in our society who love to hang romantic paintings on their walls, and, you believe it or not, those romantic paintings significantly increase happiness and romance in their lives.
(3) Laugh together. Play together. Taste food together. Because, this is a wonderful pattern for creating intimacy and staying happy.
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