How Do I Prove to My Ex Girlfriend That I Have Changed?
It's pretty common to hear from a guy who is trying to win back
his ex girlfriend and have him say something along the lines of, she
doesn't really believe that I have changed. This can be a frustrating
thing, but you do have to see things from her point of view. Anyone
can SAY that they have changed, but that doesn't really mean much,
does it? We all know that just saying that you have changed is not
really proof of anything.
What you are going to have to do is SHOW your ex girlfriend that you have changed and that you are for real.
That means that it is your ACTIONS that have to back up your words. Words by themselves are not going to be enough in most situations. You need more than that.
Here are some tips that will help you PROVE to your ex girlfriend that you really have changed:
1) You have to know first what it is that she wanted you to change.
This is important. You don't want to change the stuff that she liked about you, you want to change the things that made her break up with you. Find out what those things are because if you don't know and you try to guess, you can end up changing something that actually attracted her and that is NOT a good thing to do.
2) You have to let your actions speak first.
It's WAY more impactful to let your actions do the talking before you open up your mouth. One of the most common mistakes that men will make is that they will open up their mouth first and all that does is make your ex girlfriend skeptical. On the other hand, if she sees the change in you FIRST, then when you say that you have changed it comes across as being a LOT more believable and that is really what you want.
It's not always easy to prove to an ex girlfriend that you really have changed. It can take time and that is something that you need to be prepared for. If you can't handle the time it takes to prove to her that you are for real, you may find that you don't end up back with her. On the other hand, if you can be patient and allow her to take her time so that she can see that you are for real, you might just end up with her back in your life as your girlfriend.
What you are going to have to do is SHOW your ex girlfriend that you have changed and that you are for real.
That means that it is your ACTIONS that have to back up your words. Words by themselves are not going to be enough in most situations. You need more than that.
Here are some tips that will help you PROVE to your ex girlfriend that you really have changed:
1) You have to know first what it is that she wanted you to change.
This is important. You don't want to change the stuff that she liked about you, you want to change the things that made her break up with you. Find out what those things are because if you don't know and you try to guess, you can end up changing something that actually attracted her and that is NOT a good thing to do.
2) You have to let your actions speak first.
It's WAY more impactful to let your actions do the talking before you open up your mouth. One of the most common mistakes that men will make is that they will open up their mouth first and all that does is make your ex girlfriend skeptical. On the other hand, if she sees the change in you FIRST, then when you say that you have changed it comes across as being a LOT more believable and that is really what you want.
It's not always easy to prove to an ex girlfriend that you really have changed. It can take time and that is something that you need to be prepared for. If you can't handle the time it takes to prove to her that you are for real, you may find that you don't end up back with her. On the other hand, if you can be patient and allow her to take her time so that she can see that you are for real, you might just end up with her back in your life as your girlfriend.
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